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WHEN WE PAUSE TO GRIEVE: LOSS OF A FRIEND
Losing a beloved pet through death or
having him or her put to sleep is a loss that takes time to
accept. The following are a few suggestions that may help
you to deal positively with your loss.
A TIME TO GRIEVE
In beginning the grieving process, you must
accept the fact that your pet is gone and allow yourself to
feel sadness just as you would for the loss of any loved
one. You may experience a period of emptiness, sorrow or
anger. This is the time when the support of family and
friends is most important. It is helpful to recognize that
other pet owners have gone through what you are experiencing
and you are not alone.
A TIME TO HEAL
The healing process begins when you are
able to let memories evoke smiles instead of tears. Remember
that you provided a loving home for a pet that otherwise may
not have been so fortunate. You also experienced and shared
in the unconditional love that an animal so willingly
provides. The satisfaction you experienced by making a
lasting commitment to your friend should prove to you that
you do have room in your heart to welcome another animal in
need of your companionship.
A TIME TO LOVE
You will know when the healing process is
complete when you are ready to welcome a new pet into your
heart and home. At this time, please consider a homeless
friend form the Niagara SPCA to fulfill the need for a
companion animal in your household.
IN MEMORIAM
To memorialize your pet's passing, you may
choose to make a donation to the Niagara SPCA in memory of
your pet, plant a tree in your pet's honor on the SPCA
grounds, purchase a brick in your pet's honor for the
walkway leading to our cemetery, or become a member of the
society. The Niagara SPCA also provides an individual
cremation service for a fee, should you desire your pet's
ashes for either a special place in your home or yard, or
for future placement in our cemetery.
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